Apr 29 2009
Why does my man get mad when I try to make this girl back off?
Why does my man get mad when I try to make this girl back off?
“He and I have children together, and she knows this. I just want to keep trying to keep us together for the kids. Why can’t I tell her to leave him alone? He talks to her all the time and they work together. He often will not take my calls or text, but he seems to always take hers. I love him so much and I don’t want to hurt our kids in anyway!”
First and foremost, staying with a man because you have children is the one thing that hurts the kids more than anything! You are showing your children that they do not have a right to be happy in their life. If he doesn’t want to be with you then you need to face the fact that he does not want to be with you. You do not have a right to tell him how to live his life. All that you can do is accept the choice that he has made and take it with dignity and show your children how to be independent, mature and survive on their own.
You also need to make sure that you do not bad mouth your children’s father in front of them. Your children are learning from every choice that you make throughout their life. I think that you need to take this time to find your inner strength. Obviously you are feeling a bit rejected because you do not understand why he is choosing to take her calls and talk to her while ignoring yours. It is a very hard thing to deal with, but it can only improve you and help you to grow and become a better person and mother. Make every situation into a positive and find a way to grow and become a better person from the experience.
