Jun 10 2009
What do you think about a guy who betrays his girlfriend?
“My girlfriend now says that I have betrayed her and that she does not know how she feels about us having a future. I would prefer not to say how I betrayed her, but it is true I too believe that I have done something that betrays her love for me. What do you think I can do to make up for it? I want to know what she is thinking… What do you think of a guy who betrays a girl he is in an intimate relationship with?
I believe that any many who betrays a woman he is committed to is a very weak man. If he cannot be honest with someone that he claims to care so deeply about then clearly he only thinks of himself. If you care for someone enough to be your spouse then you need to respect them a lot more than to be deceitful to them. You say that you are in an intimate relationship with her. What do you think being in an intimate relationship really means? Do you think you are intimate with her because you are sexually active? Or do you think that you are intimate with her because you have a special, unique emotional bond with her?
I am hoping that you think it is intimate because of the second, because to most girls they have no desire to be sexual with a man that they do not feel an emotional connection with. Therefore, when you do something to betray her it is such an intense blow to the heart that some people will never get over it!
Yes, everyone does make mistakes and you may’ve done something very minor that was a truly honest mistake. However, with you refusing to state what you have done, it forces me to believe that you did something to the extreme like cheating, which is the ultimate betrayal! Always think before you act, or speak especially if you are in a committed relationship. When you commit your life to another person you give up all rights to act selfish and without thinking of their feelings before making serious decisions. Commitment to another human is all about compromise and improving each others lives. I hope you learned a lesson from this! The ultimate test of your personality is how you will respond to mistakes you have made.
